I Tried The Rock-Paper-Scissors Trader Joe’s Date Night

If you were an alien learning about human dating by watching every episode of “The Bachelorette,” you would likely come to believe that a date means going skydiving, having a country musician surprise you with a private concert, or sitting in front of a twinkle-lit dinner but never quite eating anything on your plate. And … Read more

If You Really Love Your Friends, Don’t Clean Up Before They Come Over

It took me years to accept that I am, undeniably, a messy person. Regardless of how big my space is or who I share it with, keeping my home neat and tidy has always been a struggle. Despite having a home that’s clean, in the hygienic sense, and decorated with great care and intention, I’ve … Read more

This Sweet Christmas Morning Tradition Brings Us So Much Joy

Charli PennExecutive Lifestyle Director Charli Penn is the Executive Lifestyle Director at Apartment Therapy and an award-winning journalist, editor and Webby-nominated former podcast host who writes in the name and praise of all things good living (and loving!). She thoroughly enjoys photography, 90s R&B, and all things gold accents. When she’s not curled up at … Read more

7 Mistakes to Avoid if You’re Moving in With Your Partner

Home is the most personal space we have, and sharing it with someone special can be intimidating and richly rewarding. Most couples, however, have to work through some difficulties before they make it to happily ever after.  For more content like this follow Even if you stay with each other most nights and are practically … Read more

7 Tips for Setting Boundaries with Family Over the Holidays

by Sarah Kuta published about 8 hours ago Though cheery commercials and sappy Hallmark movies would have everyone believe otherwise, the holidays can be a pretty fraught time for many people. Spending quality time with family members sounds great in theory, but in reality, it can be super stressful.  For more content like this follow … Read more

This Mindset Shift Around Alone Time Has Made Me a Better Mom and Partner

Shifrah Combiths With five children, Shifrah is learning a thing or two about how to keep a fairly organized and pretty clean house with a grateful heart in a way that leaves plenty of time for the people who matter most. Shifrah grew up in San Francisco, but has come to appreciate smaller town life … Read more

BeReal Helps Me Feel More Connected to My Friends Than Ever

I always get a feeling of sly excitement when I sneak a glimpse into someone else’s home at nighttime. This usually happens when I’m walking around my neighborhood in Brooklyn, or when I’m traveling and can’t help but wonder how the people in any given destination live (and decorate). I’m not necessarily trying to look, … Read more

8 Ways to Prepare Your Home for Overnight Guests (Yes, the Romantic Kind)

We independently select these products—if you buy from one of our links, we may earn a commission. All prices were accurate at the time of publishing. You’ve done it, tiger. You invited your date back to your place — what now? I spoke with Ariella Serur, a dating coach specializing in queer relationships, about how … Read more

This Is How to Avoid the Dreaded IKEA Couple’s Fight, According to Therapists

Kara Nesvig Contributor Kara Nesvig grew up on a sugar beet farm in rural North Dakota and did her first professional interview with Steven Tyler at age 14. She has written for publications including Teen Vogue, Allure and Wit & Delight. She lives in an adorable 1920s house in St. Paul with her husband, their … Read more