by Furnishly | Mar 19, 2022 | Design Inspiration, Style
At the beginning of 2020, I decided to make the lofty goal of paying off the rest of my student loans before I turned 26. The thought of having to pay both health insurance and student loans at the same time put me in an anxious budgeting tizzy. Plus, it would seriously reduce the amount of interest I would pay over time.
I had approximately $15,000 of loans left at the time, so I knew I’d have to be a bit aggressive in my payoff: I would pay about $900 a month as opposed to the $220 required for the 20-year loan payment plan. While my plan seemed to be going swimmingly, albeit on a tight budget, things took an even tighter turn.
My company gave us five weeks of furlough and I decided to escape the city to live with my parents temporarily (while still paying rent). I was nervous I wouldn’t complete my goal, but I found myself spending a lot less, and with the government pausing interest on student loans until May, it’s allowed me to stay on track.
Despite not fully paying off my student loans (yet!), the money is there waiting to pay them off the second the interest rates kick in again in May. Here’s what the pandemic taught me about money.
Reevaluate what’s important.
Like most people, a lot of my IRL activities got temporarily canceled because of the pandemic, including both my gym membership and pricey barre subscription. When I transitioned to that GFH (gym from home) life, I had no idea what workouts to do. I ended up buying a discounted eight-week fitness guide from an influencer and decided to do the workouts in the ample space in my parents’ home.
While I did miss the class atmosphere and form corrections from instructors, I found myself getting stronger doing more bodyweight exercises a few days a week — even more so than from those costly barre classes. Because of this, I’ve decided not to commit to an expensive gym or a boutique workout class pack, but I take the occasional drop-in class. I still prioritize fitness, just in a more affordable way.
I’ve taken a similar approach to other things I was frivolously spending on, from clothing, to makeup, to quarantine games. I definitely cut back on all the above, but I still splurge from time to time — when there’s a sale.
Because of my at-home, not-doing-much lifestyle during the beginning of the pandemic, I found myself in the lucky position to not spend as much money. I decided to keep as much in savings as possible for the big student loan payoff plan. Later, through improving my financial literacy, I learned that money wasn’t doing much sitting there collecting $0.02 in interest each month in my savings account.
I knew I didn’t want to invest said money because, hello, I need to pay off my debt. But I found that this important cash would do better in a high-interest savings account where I get 0.50 percent annual percentage yield (APY). It was the easiest thing I’ve ever done to “make” more money each month and my savings feel even nicer with some padding.
Side hustle, but not too hard.
With a lack of a commute and more free time, I decided to finally take the plunge with freelance writing, which I had been putting off starting for a while. Things began slowly as I excessively pitched different media outlets, but after a few months, I started to earn a consistent income. It almost became addicting watching my monthly side hustle money hit a different goal each month. I’ve learned since then that it’s important to actually say no to some opportunities or to ask to push deadlines in order to not be working all the time. I’ve also started putting 30 percent of each freelance check into savings, so I can use that money later when I file my taxes.
Money goals are great, but so is life.
Through my mix of prioritization, extra cash flow, and smart savings, I now have more than enough to pay off my loans. However, I would never let it stop me from still enjoying my current life, especially as things begin to open up again, allowing me to take an in-person workout class or actually want to dress up for the first time in months. I now find myself weighing my social engagements with my finances a little more to decide what is actually valuable enough to be worth my time and money. There’s no need to live a FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) life, when I can enjoy life now.
by Furnishly | Mar 13, 2022 | Design Inspiration, Style
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by Furnishly | Jan 21, 2022 | Design Inspiration, Style
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When you talk to someone about Valentine’s Day, odds are they fall into one of two camps. They either love Valentine’s Day, or they think it’s all a marketing ploy to create an occasion for people to spend more money. No matter which group of thought you identify with more, odds are that if you’re seeing someone special, you’re probably going to want to pick up a little something for your partner leading up to February 14.
This doesn’t mean you have to book a vacation or buy expensive jewelry or clothing for your partner, though. Sometimes the best Valentine’s Day gifts are the simplest ones — like a handwritten note, personalized trinket, or special dinner reservation. If you have a small budget and want to treat your partner to something special this holiday, here are 30 Valentine’s Day gifts they’re sure to love, all for under $30.
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by Furnishly | Dec 7, 2021 | Design Inspiration, Style
Whether you’re on a decluttering journey, or frankly don’t need anything new this holiday season, it’s possible that the idea of adding even one more item to your household stresses you out. After all, you may have all the cooking utensils you need for a while, you definitely don’t need another scarf, and you’re all set on the Dyson Airwrap since you already bought one yourself after holding out for months. (OK, maybe that last one was just me.)
Whatever your reasoning to skip the gifts this year may be, that conversation may feel a little awkward to have with loved ones. For example, they may take your request to not receive gifts as a slight against their shopping choices in the past. Or maybe it’s a parent or grandparent who truly finds enormous fulfillment in finding you just the right thing.
This, of course, begs the question: How do you set that boundary with friends and family without hurting anyone’s feelings? Do you bring it up first? How soon should you do so? No sweat — here’s how to tell your friends and family you don’t want any gifts this year, according to an etiquette expert.
Bring it up first (and as soon as possible).
Elaine Swann, an etiquette and lifestyle expert and the founder of the Swann School of Protocol, advises that the very moment you decide you do not want to receive gifts, you need to tell your loved ones and give them a heads up. Be sure to bring up the conversation first, rather than wait for them to ask you what you want for the holidays this year, or when they offer you the present and things get awkward.
“Be honest and be very clear with your request. You can do it in writing, if you wish, for example in the family group text chain. The key is when you share this information is to make sure that everyone understands that it is a wish you have this year and you’re not doing it in a manner to make people feel bad,” directs Swann.
Swann recommends saying any of the following phrases to help keep things respectful (and not personal): “‘This year, I have everything I need,’ or ‘I’m not accepting gifts this year, I just really want to celebrate your presence,’” are two great ways to keep things clear, direct, and succinct. “This way, people aren’t taking it personally,” she explains.
Remember, your decision to not receive gifts is your own. And while it may be the right call for you, it may not be aligned with others’ wants or values. With that said, make sure to avoid being self-righteous about your choice to not receive gifts.
“Don’t get really preachy about it and start talking about how there’s wastefulness in the world and that there are people starving in other countries and things like that,” Swann notes. These are all good aims to have, but they can ultimately belabor the point and alienate loved ones who weren’t thinking about anything but delighting you with a gift.
If they got you a gift anyway….
If someone did some shopping before you decided you didn’t want any presents this holiday season — or they insisted on buying you a present anyway — it’s still good form to accept the gift politely.
“Accept the gift graciously and leave it at that,” advises Swann. “Gift-giving is really about the joy of the giver. People in many instances really enjoy looking and shopping and selecting. We certainly don’t want to chastise people and make them feel bad about their choice to still give gifts this year.”